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Making judgements on people in the context of dating certainly doesn’t seem to follow the scientific method. One gains a first impression flavored by behavior of the other party: he is confident, or unconfident etc, and then they assume he fits into an archetype…’sought after guy’, ‘guy who’s rejected a lot’ etc etc, and then they will actively search for evidence to prove their hypothesis, rather than gather evidence and then form a hypothesis. The trick is to fool them into thinking that you are ‘sought after guy’, based on displaying behavior of ‘sought after guy’ at first impression. They will then search for evidence in you to confirm their hypothesis in the subsequent impressions, and if we know anything about how the human brain works it is this: if one seeks evidence, inevitably they will find it.